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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

08.06.2025 05:36

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

My wife has a bunch of really attractive friends, and she expects me to never say anything to her about how beautiful they are. Does this seem fair? I love my wife, and just commenting shouldn’t hurt anything, right?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

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You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

What is the central theme of the entire Bible in one word (if possible)?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

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12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

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56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

Do people really never face any hidden costs or surprises with surgeries in countries with single-payer healthcare like the NHS?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

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25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

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2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

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16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

What are some signs that a therapist may have poor boundaries with their clients?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

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88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

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47~ What would be your dream job and why?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

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What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

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Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

Have you ever had a secret crush on anyone?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

Family Relation Age Play

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

How old are you? Male or Female?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Any that are a turn off?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

Please share Did you stop?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

Any that are a turn off?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

If yes, what?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

29- How superstitious are you?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

39~ What are your love languages?

Would you read them together?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

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43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

What is your favorite position? Why?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

If you win, what will you make them do?

Nothing too Serious

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

*** Random Questions ***

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

*** Questions About Me ***

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

The Ice Breaker Questions

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

52~ What are your hobbies?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?